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Los discos más gay, muy heterosexuales

Es una fascinación cuasi secreta y culpable, pero todos adoran las listas de los “discos más…” y esta vez la revista norteamericana Out no se quiso quedar afuera y salió con una propia para enumerar los 100 discos más gay de la historia.

El título es de por sí pretencioso y tramposo ¿Qué hace que un disco sea gay? Según actores, músicos, críticos, periodistas o pintores homosexuales que respondieron la encuesta basta con el que el álbum sea del gusto de la comunidad gay-lésbica.

Con esa premisa no sorprende que haya “clásicos gay” como Queen, Madonna, Cher o Pet Shop Boys, pero sí es un hallazgo encontrar que dentro del gusto homosexual aparezcan discos de Nick Drake, Nirvana, Jeff Buckley, Tori Amos o The Beatles. 

En la lista, los cantantes o bandas heterosexuales son mayoría, pero en honor a la verdad los íconos gay también siempre lo fueron: Kilye Minogue, Judy Garland o Abba -además de las ya citadas Madonna o Cher- lo único gay que tienen es su club de fans. 

Obviamente en la lista no faltan artistas gay como Elton John, George Michael o KD Lang y bandas de sonido de películas u obras de teatro que tocan de alguna forma la temática gay. La lista la encabeza David Bowie, que repite su nombre varias veces en el conteo al igual que The Smiths. 

De los artistas latinos no hay rastros. Ni siquiera se anota un poroto Shakira o Ricky Martin que son los más internaciones, así que mucho menos asoma Sandra y Celeste, Valeria Lynch, Chavela Vargas, Alaska o Raphael.

Vale la pena repasar la lista pero ¡atentos! no hay que caer en la tentación -o la paranoia- de usarla como tester de homosexualidad porque si se toma de parámetro más de uno acabrá pensando que parte de sus gustos viven dentro del clóset.

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1 Response to “Los discos más gay, muy heterosexuales”


  1. 11 marzo 2014 en 15:15

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